I have not been able to talk about the mediation because of confidentiality.
The Equalities Mediation Service set up a mediation meeting with the owner of the Paw Prince pet shop and myself and my Mum. The meeting took place on May 15th 2012. The Mediation agenda items were;
1. What happened in the Paw Prince pet shop
2. How access could be improved for wheelchair access to the aisles and the till area
3. For the owner of Paw Prince pet shop to have an awareness of disability needs
4. An apology from the owner of the shop
5. Compensation
Each agenda item was resolved and a good will gesture was agreed.
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We were not very hopeful for a resolution at the mediation meeting recommended and provided by the Equality & Human Rights Commision, as we felt we had previously tried to resolve this ourselves, in particular refering to the dissapointing outcome from the meeting set up and attended by the Mayor of Margate.  However the Equalities Mediation Service exceeded our expectations and were able to resolve our compaints.  We would recommend to anyone who suffers from disability discrimination to take this same route if it is offered to you (unless you are able to afford court action).  The outcome of the meeting was that we felt we had taken control of our situation and with the assistance of the Mediator we were able to come to a full and final settlement with the owner of the petshop.
The unfortunate thing is that the Coalition Goverment cuts to the EHRC has resulted in this mediation service being withdrawn, which is disgraceful considering that this appears to be the only help that the EHRC were able to offer us.
The law is there to protect us from discrimination but the EHRC which is the only organisation set up to help us HAS NO TEETH AT ALL !